don't marry a player. don't fall in love with one either. maybe i'm wrong, maybe it isn't just players, but it seems that all they want when they hit middle age is to prove to themselves that they've still got it. maybe if someone gives them a little attention they believe that bald spot on the back of their head isn't that noticible (it is) or that their gut doesn't protrude as far as they fear (it does). they may believe that all they want is someone besides their wife or girlfriend to want them. but they want more than that. they want to return to their glory days. everyone would like to turn the clock back. i know i do. so many decisions i would have made differently.